Fit4love

Do you dread first dates?  A lot of people do.

You can end up having long silences where both of you are searching for something to talk about.  A lot of singles judge themselves harshly on that first date, thinking things like,

• “Do I look OK?
• Am I saying the right things?
• Am I interesting enough?
• What should I say next?”

There’s a proven technique to ease the first date jitters – it’s being prepared to ask great questions.  When you’re prepared with topics to discuss, there’s a lot less time for self-criticism, and a lot more time for fun.

Here are our top 10 first-date questions:

1. What types of traveling have you done?
2. Where’s your favorite spot, anywhere?
3. What’s your favorite movie?
4. What would your friends say about you?
5. How do you feel about first dates?
6. White kinds of animals have you had as pets
7. What do you think about cooking?
8. How did you select the career you’re in now?
9. What charity would you donate to?
10. What were you like in grade school?

Being prepared to initiate stimulating conversations is a terrific skill.  Remember, once you ask the question, listen.  Great listeners are very attractive to others.

Until next time, enjoy the journey.

P.S. – Our Fit4love Prompts will give you a lot more great questions to ask on your dates.  Let me know what you think.